Dating seems to be really hard for Black women worldwide when it comes to finding a mate. Many Black women date exclusively Black men, and find it hard to find a mate. You hear several things about the overall shortage of eligible Black men. Of course, there are numerous reasons why some men are on average less educated, and more likely to have prison records in comparison to other races. I feel many women should also keep this in mind. Our justice system is racist, and our education system almost ensures many people of color will not complete high school. Many women are now choosing to open their dating choices to just include anyone they find love with.
You will find more statistics at Statista
I just wanted to include this neat little graph I found about intermarriage in the USA. While on average we simply do not date other men, more and more are finding love in many different places. Personally, I have a preference, which has little to do with what someone looks like.
One thing I have been hearing from many different women is.. Go to Europe.. I hear they love us out there. I just wanted to address this. Please, do not be duped into this. Not every European is checking for the sistahs. Now, I will say, I am quite popular here. I am quite popular in a lot of places to be honest.. (big Leo ego LOL). Europe is a big a diverse place. The Northern Europeans are more keen to be interested in Black women. There are hardly really any here. Countries like Denmark, the Netherlands, Germany, and Sweden are places were it is hard to not get hit on a daily basis, but please do not think moving here is the answer to all of your problems. Sometimes the reason you are single is your issue, not the men. Not all European men are good men. Remember an asshole comes in many colors. Dating someone just because of their color is a terrible way to start a relationship. Finding someone you truly match with is the key. Maybe you simply are not ready. Many women I knew back in the states were looking for a laundry list of qualities, while they had nothing to offer but looks.
There is a lot of issues that arose with moving to another country for a relationship. It is not easy. We are culturally very different. He does not see marriage as a priority before having children, Germans do not seem to care much about making a lot of money, and a laundry list of other things. Not only that, I have to deal with other Germans LOL. He may be open minded and caring, but this is not the case for when I am going about my to day. I am learning another language, trying to work, dealing with the stares, and trying to manage a relationship. It is hard. So I just ask, please really do not overlook flaws before making the leap. When you move, remember you will be alone here, and at times have to depend solely on this individual.. No matter what color.. look before you leap.
Black Girl in Berlin