Give and be Given the Best of Life.
Even though sometimes you feel lonely and frustrated, people around you think that everything’s fine with you. The problem is that they don’t realize you need a partner to share your life with. It’s high time you stopped hesitating, start breaking the cocoon of being single and feel as a complete human being.
A Person without a Partner is not a Complete Person
Human beings are conceived to live within a society and such society is sub-divided in micro-societies called families. In order to have a family you need a partner and, in some cases, the family does not have to be integrated by children as well, only your partner and you are more than enough. However, Breaking the Cocoon of being lone is not something easy, especially if you have been along for such a long time that now you have forgotten the enchantment of sharing and compromising. Don’t worry, we have all the tips for you to remember and put into practice everything you need to walk hand in hand in life.
Breaking the Cocoon of Being Single – There is More than Just Myself Out There
When you have been single for more time than recommended, you acquire certain habits that make it difficult to connect with someone again. Sometimes, people refuse to lose the comfort they have developed in the coziness of feeling the only human beings on earth, but that can be potentially harmful for mental wellbeing, so if you want to have a partner with who you can feel complete, you will need to discard such habits and begin to realize that there is a person on the other side that feels and needs things as you do. Some tips for you to start practicing are:
- Observe: pay attention to other people’s preferences, likes, dislikes, attitudes and so on, will help you understand and perceive the world around you with the people in it. This will make you look and sound as a more sensitive person.
Listen: this skill is in high demand and is not that easy as it sounds. You have to listen to the other, react to what the persons says and wait for the answer to be finished until you continue talking. A good listener is definitely a good partner.
Show Empathy: worrying for the people that form part of your environment is a vital part when you want to begin a new life with someone else beside you. Understanding and being able to put in the other person’s feet will make you an eligible partner.
Compromise: this is an unavoidable advantage when you begin a life in which you have to concede to receive. Stop thinking that you are the center of the universe and try to make the people you love happy. There is no fullness without sacrificing part of your freedom and devote time and dedication to the other person.
All these tips will train you to lead the best kind of life when the right person reaches your life, since you are going to be accustomed to ask and wait for an answer and also to care about your mate and also to make decisions together, not only basing them on your personal likes.
Author byline: I’m the Co-Founder and Webmaster of several dating sites including Chicks For Dating. I started in the dating area in 2005, writing articles and press releases as freelancer and helping in the envisioning and development of international dating websites (most of them from Latin-America and Europe), believing that technology can help soul-mates to find real love and long-term relationships. I enjoy my free time reading technology articles, walking and hearing music dreaming in new dating projects.
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